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    "look inside first"don't blame others a true story

    Post  help on Sat Apr 04, 2009 11:40 pm

    A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
    They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.
    When the boy was Around two years old, one morning the husband
    saw a medicine bottle Open.

    He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and
    keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally
    forgot the matter.

    The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated
    by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine
    meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother
    hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned.
    She was terrified how to face her husband.

    When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the
    dead child , He looked at his wife and uttered just ten words.



    ANSWER :

    The husband just said ,

    "I am with you, Darling . I belong to You."

    The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.
    The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no
    point in finding fault with the mother.Besides, if only he had taken
    time to Keep the bottle away,this would not have happened. No one
    is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed
    at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.
    That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind
    of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
    Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears.
    and you will find things are not actually not as difficult as you think.


    MORAL OF THE STORY

    Love people unconditionally. Seperate people from their qualities.
    Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom
    to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people
    we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationships.

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